My Will
I have a will.
I have the "I want this; I don't want that" kind of will.
I make my own decisions.
I do my own thing.
I am my own man.
God's Will
Believe it or not, God is strong-willed. The God of the Universe has the "I want this; I don't want that" kind of will.
He makes His own decisions.
He does His own thing.
He is His own man.
But if you think that is scary, think again.
Trusting God
"love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control." --Galatians 5:22-23...everything He wants (wills) flows out of that.
Every one of His desires, choices, and actions is totally rooted in one thing: LOVE.
This LOVE impacted how He created us, it determines how He reacts to us, and it controls how He feels about us.
Did you catch that?
God, the eternal, perfect, all-knowing, all-powerful, everywhere-all-the-time God, wants (wills)--with the most powerful will of all time--to LOVE us.
(Reread God's definition of love in 1 Corinthians 13. He loves you like that!)
The Choice
"God's will" is for us to know Him and be with Him forever. Therefore, every desire of God in our lives--whether to change our actions, or alter our attitudes, or deflate our anger, or mend relationships we don't want to fix--stems from His desire for us to be with Him, in His perfection, for eternity.
Think about it...
"For this is the will of God, your sanctification... For God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness." --1 Thessalonians 4:3,7
"for [God is] not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance." --2 Peter 3:9
"For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will— to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves." --Ephesians 1:4-6
"Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." --1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
He wants us to have perfect love.
Perfect joy.
Perfect peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
That can only happen when we choose His will over our will.
"And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those whom he predestined he also called, and those whom he called he also justified, and those whom he justified he also glorified. What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?" --Romans 8:28-32